Hunger and satiety
The body can give us a variety of signals through hormones which regulate satiety and hunger. Some have bodies that give clear cues to fullness, whilst others can have trouble recognising when the body has had enough. Some children find it very difficult to tell the difference between what the body needs compared to what it needs.
Physiological regulation of hunger
It takes practice and time for a child to learn how to respond to the signals from the body telling us when it needs food, drink or has had enough to eat. An important part of this is letting the child be in charge of the amount of food on the plate and making independent choices. It is the adult's responsibility to provide food, create a suitable meal time schedule and make the food. The child can then choose what it would like to eat out of what is offered, and the amount of food. Avoid putting pressure on the child in saying that he/she must finish their plate before leaving the table. That often leads to the child ignoring the body's feedback. Respect the child's decision in saying that he/she is content and would like to leave the table, even if there is still food left.
Parents/caregivers role in regulating appetite and satiety
Years of clinical experience, as well as a growing body of knowledge, show that children with obesity have trouble in recognising fullness. These children a from a very early age show an appetite level that is higher compared to children who have a lower body weight. They also experience satiety at a slower rate, making it more difficult to adjust food intakes. Parents/caregivers can support a child struggling with appropriate intake of food by using one or more of the following strategies
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Establish regular meal times with no screens at the table
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Change to smaller plates or reduce the portion size, and give the child time to eat
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Practice eating more slowly so the child can recognise more fullness before second helpings
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Choose foods that digest more slowly and takes up space, such as vegetables and whole grain '
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Reduce the availability of tempting foods (fizzy drinks, sweets, crisps, cookies, chocolate) as a child hasn't learnt how to deal with temptation as adults do
Slowing down
Eating with more leisure and spending time eating are effective ways of letting the child recognise signs of fullness. Chewing more slowly, eating foods that require cutlery and drinking water whilst eating helps the stomach/intestines in sending signals to the brain, where satiety hormones are produced. It takes about 15-20 minutes before we notice fullness. Eating more slowly and spending time at the table e.g talking is a skill that needs practice. Toddlers and pre-schoolers will not have the patience to sit for very long, but this is where healthier foods and appropriate portion sizes become more important in adjusting amounts.

Last updated 1/9/2026